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Booking Related Questions

How do I book?
  • Read through the FAQs and contact me specifying which massage you wish to book.
  • We will discuss over a call and agree a provisional time/date/location.
  • A £50 booking deposit, usually payable electronically, will be required to confirm a booking.
  • An approximate location will be provided upon a confirmed booking and 1 day before the appointment, the full address will be confirmed.
Are there any age restrictions?

I see anybody within the ages of 18 years old to up 80.  I may ask for ID if necessary, especially if you’re lucky enough to look under 25.

I have had a Tantric massage before, is this the same?

I do not provide Tantric massage, however it is similar in that it is giving you the opportunity to explore your sexuality and sensuality safely and discreetly. My approach focuses on arousal and intimacy issues rather than being overly spiritual. 

How can I be sure you won’t do something I don’t want or like?

I always ask clients to complete an Authorisation & Requests Form before giving the first appointment. This enables you to create the experience you want, including what type and what intensity of arousal you like to experience. It also enables you to identify any cautious area of exploration or complete “no go" areas.

How confidential is this?

Totally and completely - The confidentiality of my clients is paramount and I am totally discreet. I have worked with clients from all walks of life and understand that for each client privacy is of the upmost importance.  To keep you and I safe, I will need some personal information as you would need to give for any normal massage treatment or therapy session, including name, email, mobile number. Your information will not be disclosed to third parties. What you tell me in the consultation/treatment room, remains totally private unless I believe you are a serious risk to yourself or others.

Do you see just Female Clients?

 I also see male clients, and sometimes see both male and female clients at the same time if a male/female couple wishes to experience a tandem massage, or perhaps one partner just wants to watch their partner enjoy a sensual massage and possibly join in. 

Do you do 4 hands massage?

Yes, I work with a number of trusted female and male masseuses. 4 hands massage can be a very intense and erotic experience, with the different touch of each masseur working your body at the same time. Please ask me about this if you’re interested in a 4 hands massage.

What happens before my massage?

When you arrive I will welcome you, offer you a drink, make you comfortable and we will have a brief consultation, discuss what you would like from your massage and review your authorisaion form. If you have not showered beforehand, you will be able to shower because cleanliness is important. During the consultation you can advise of any areas I should focus on, or avoid, whether you have any health conditions or allergies that I should be aware of and any other requests. Please note that I will refuse to massage you if you are under the influence of alcohol or drugs so please do not arrive whilst under the influence. After the consultation I will settle you on the massage table and we will begin your massage.

How long should I allow?

Please arrive promptly at the agreed time.  For each massage treatment (60 mins or 90 mins) you should allow approximately an additional half hour to give time for the brief consultation and to shower before and/or after.  We will also have a short chat after  the treatment.

I am not confident about my body to arrange a naked sensual massage, do you need to be fit and youthful to have a massage?

Absolutely not. Everyone regardless of age (18 +), size* or body shape can benefit from a naked sensual massage. You definitely don’t need to be a model. All are welcomed and treated with respect. Having a massage can be a liberating experience and give you confidence in your body.

If you have any health conditions such as heart conditions, skin disorders or epilepsy or suffer from fits then please discuss the suitability of the massage with me before making an appointment.

*If you are classed as morbidly or severely obese then the massage is not suitable for you because of limitations on the size and weight of the massage table.

Are you healthy?

Yes I do regular exercise, am physically fit and I take regular sexual health checks.

What forms of payment do you accept?

I can accept cash or card payments. I take a £50 booking deposit, usually paid electronically and full payment upon completion of treatment.

Where do you practice?

I practice primarily from a private treatment room in Sutton.  However, occasionally I also am able to travel to a private treatment room 5 mins walk from Victoria train station.  Both treatment rooms are very discreet and secluded. 

I’m not sure female to female massage is for me. Can you re-assure me?

I do see female clients who are completely new to sensual massage with another female. You are not alone in having these concerns, it’s normal to be apprehensive if this is your first experience of naked sensual massage with a woman. The important thing to remember is that you don’t need to do anything except lay back and enjoy the massage. Of course you are welcome to explore with me but it is entirely at your pace and comfort. Before the massage starts we can discuss any concerns you may have, what your expectations are and what you would like to experience. If you are nervous about talking about these things then we can just begin and let things flow naturally.  I am confident that during the massage you will become more relaxed and I shall be able to intuitively sense your preferences and requirements.

Do you offer couples massage options?

Many couples reach a point where they fantasise about involving others in their intimate life. A couples sexual exploration together can bring them closer, improve their sex life and deepen their emotional connection with each other, through mutual trust and communication.

I provide a safe and controlled environment that is all about you as a couple, with no one else’s agenda or needs to consider. You’re able to specify what you want and set any boundaries in advance and remain in control at all times.

I offer some alternatives for couples massage.

Couples massage with Jay
This couples massage will involve each person being massaged by me, one after the other. Both partners are welcome to be in the room whilst the massage is taking place, with one partner either observing or joining in with some guidance from Jay. Then roles will swap and the remaining partner will receive their massage.

Couples Massage with 2 masseurs
This couples massage takes place at the same time, in the same room. I work with a select group of male and female masseurs to offer this massage.

Cuckold Massage
I can also offer a cuckold massage which allows someone to just watch their partner have a sensual massage. Some people visiting prefer to wait in an adjacent room or go for a drive to return later. The choice is entirely yours to make your fantasy come to life. 

Can I book a massage as a surprise for my partner/friend?

Whilst you may book for a partner, everyone receiving a treatment must have had a prior video call with me and complete required forms themselves. The nature of the treatment must be fully understood.

Do you offer any guidance/training for Sensual Massage?

I provide sensual massage training for individuals and couples wanting to enhance foreplay skills, learn intimate touch and sensual massage. You will learn some basic Swedish massage strokes as well as sensual and arousing techniques. I can arrange female or male volunteers to enable me to teach individuals how to give a sensual massage. If you are a couple, you can either practice on each other or a volunteer can be arranged. Get in touch to discuss your requirements.

Questions About The Intimate Content of My Treatment

Do you give skin to skin contact?

Yes, I do unless requested not to. The treatment involves some body to body contact since as well as using my hands, I also use arms, elbows and if appropriate body and body weight, but this can be adjusted to suit your comfort.

Are you, the masseur naked?

Usually I start partly clothed, and remove clothes part way through the massage if this feels appropriate. If you prefer it I can remain fully or partly clothed throughout.

Am I naked?

We will start with you on the table under a towel, which will be removed shortly after the start. Ideally you will be naked because every part of your body will be included in the massage (unless you specify an area to be avoided) however you may wear underwear if you wish. For the most sensual experience it us best for us both to be naked.

Can I touch you during the treatment?

Yes you may interact with me and the level of touch I am comfortable with will be communicated at the start of the massage.  I do understand that tactile sensations can be big part of arousal and will guide you during the session.  Sensual massage involves close body contact and intimate touch and interaction tends to happen naturally during the massage.  Some people prefer to concentrate on their own sensations without having to give touch back and that’s fine.

Do you kiss during the treatment or give or receive oral stimulation?

No, I do not kiss and do not give or receive oral. Please do not ask, as these requests make it uncomfortable for us both.

How is the vaginal stimulation given?

The type and intensity of both the clitoral and vaginal stimulation can be indicated when you complete the Authorisation & Requests Form. The depth and intensity of the vaginal stimulation is guided by you, but I aim to follow your responses as the treatment progresses.

What if I get aroused? I can be noisy when turned on – is that OK?

If you get aroused that’s the idea and people are programmed to make noise when aroused. Sensual massage is intended to result in you becoming aroused, and reaching climax, but whether or not that happens it should not affect your enjoyment of your massage as a deeply relaxing and feel-good experience.

Will you use any toys or vibrators on me?

This is your choice and I would only bring them into the treatment if the client has requested/consented to the use of them. You are very welcome to bring your own. All toys are cleaned thoroughly.

Can I orgasm more than once?

Orgasm isn’t the focus of the treatment; the intimacy and sensations are. Most men will benefit from building up to one intense climax.  If you are worried about ejaculating prematurely we can work on edging. Some women may experience one intense climax and for some multiple orgasm is more common.

Can I have full penetrative sex if I felt I wanted this?

This is not something I offer - do not ask, as these requests make it uncomfortable for us both and you may be asked to leave.

Can you include any fetish or role play?

Fetishes can be an important part of arousal for many but not something I focus on within our sessions and usually isn’t important to my treatment.

Other Questions

Do I need to pay a booking fee/deposit?

For all appointments I do require a non-refundable booking deposit of £50 to be paid, usually electronically, when making the booking. This ensures your authenticity, my safety and covers my time should you change your mind and cancel altogether. I am a small business and last minute cancellations really affect livelihood. 

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Do I get a refund of my booking fee if I cancel?

I do not give refunds for cancellations without sufficient notice, but am happy to keep it held on account and then re allocate the fee to another appointment if you give more than 48 hours’ notice for a booking cancellation. Any less than 24 hours – under any circumstance – does not give me enough time to re-fill that appointment slot. Please see  Terms and Policies for full information.

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Can I arrive early?

No, please arrive at the time you have booked the start of the appointment. As much as arriving ten minutes early might seem helpful, that may be time where I am setting up the welcoming treatment room for you. 

What if I am running late?

Please send a text or whatsapp to keep me informed, as I may have to adjust later appointments. 5 or 10 minutes is understandable but any longer and I may have to shorten your appointment time. 

What if I need to cancel?

Please call, text or email and give as much notice as possible, 48 hours if you would like your booking deposit transferring to another appointment, as I do rely on business going through. Less than 48 hours before and the booking deposit will be forfeited.   Cancellation with less than 24 hours or no shows will be charged in full. I understand life can be unpredictable so if you do have to cancel last minute, please do contact me.

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Can I take a shower?

Please take a shower at home but if you have not/are not able to shower within one hour before arriving for the appointment, then I would ask you to shower before receiving the treatment. If needed, you are also welcome to take another shower following the treatment.